2012年9月12日 星期三

W2D3 - post 6 guest saga

So last night was the big night by Aljor who flew in from Manila. I had 6 guests turning up, all of whom I care a lot about. One registered while the other five did not for various reasons, two had to leave early for con call, two came late cos of work while the fifth left a bit early cos she gets up early the next day. Yet instead of my original self who would react and be frustrated, I was perfectly calm and very appreciative that these 5 friends of mine were open minded enough to turn up in the first place, especially when some of them only came for one hour and had to go back to the office. So the point is, they need more time / information / sharing from other graduates they deem more resonant with them, then give them time. Keep on inviting them to return.

Lady A signed up yesterday, much as I expected, I was very happy nonetheless! The fact that she said she wanted to register the first time I shared with her, left me touched and inspired. Sunny says I'm enrolling. So I will be exactly that. Aim high, then I will get there.

And I realised just because my breakthroughs don't resonate as much with my friends, doesn't mean i can't ask for help from fellow graduates. As a result, I'm organising for M the Magnificent head coach to meet with P tomorrow and myself, and share the story with her father which is a similar situation with P. Also with D, who came to a session previously, can speak with J, who's an entrepreneur and has since set up her own sailing boat company since March forum.

Here's the email I wrote to some friends, kind of like my first 'mass sharing': L is doubtful as usual, but I've now come to accept her as my 'sanity check', ie her acceptance will be the baseline situation.
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So a lot of you may have heard me talk about this life coaching thing I took on recently that's transformed me in so many facets of my life and made me so extremely happy and energetic, and move ALIVE THAN EVER, here's a lil something I wanted to share w you.

9am, the most senior guy on the floor (aka my boss's boss) walks past, i was grinning and said "happy wednesday Jim! I'm excited!" and waved my arms
He goes: why you excited about wed?
I said: why not?!
He's like: yeah i guess so, while walking away

Haha. Not needing a reason to be happy is liberating. So is making a choice just so, not because i need an agenda.

On that note, have a brilliant Wed afternoon!

Smile! JUST COS YOU SMILE!
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Second email to C, my bestie and the headache of my life sometimes yet i love her so dearly. haha. Getting her to register would be the BIGGEST breakthrough of my life i believe.

Subject: C - since i'm not getting response from u due to whatever / internet reason...
i'm spamming you ..

i signed up for the 10k run with my ILP buddy as mentioned to you before. today i lasted 20 mins run, i know i know very easy for other ppl, a bit of a breakthrough for me cos my whole life longest i've ran continuously is 10 mins, on this monday. haha.

out the window goes the self limiting thoughts i took as 'truths'. aka it's not possible. (does that sound familiar re you can't quit smoking haha)
chk my whatsapp msg. gj and i are both transforming. GJ has been awesome in being smokeless for last 4 days!!
i'm targeting to finish 10k run in 60 mins by feb. this will be bloody awesome. QY the AWESOME.
i hope you are coming along this awesome ride with us.
what say you?

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